I just finished watching the movie What Women Want. And the main character was a real DJ. This guy could get a ONS really easily. But he couldnt get a gf until he started hearing womens thoughs (thus making him a more sensitive guy), but still maintaining the prize attitude. Then he was able to get a meaningful relationship. Does this work, or do women mistake this for "nice guy" attitude? Will this help in getting relationships as opposed to flings?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What women want
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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The nice guy attitude is like salt. The bad boy attitude is like cake. And a DJ attitude is like food in general. Follow? People(women) dont want to eat salt all buy its self, nor do they want food with too much salt. People will eat food as is without salt, but just a pinch makes it better, any more and its ruined. Now women love cake, its bad for them and they know it, yet they keep eating cake. Now salt has no place in the world of cakes. But food with a side of cake is a meal. Wow I amaze myself sometimes.
