I just finished watching the movie What Women Want. And the main character was a real DJ. This guy could get a ONS really easily. But he couldnt get a gf until he started hearing womens thoughs (thus making him a more sensitive guy), but still maintaining the prize attitude. Then he was able to get a meaningful relationship. Does this work, or do women mistake this for "nice guy" attitude? Will this help in getting relationships as opposed to flings?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What women want
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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The nice guy attitude is like salt. The bad boy attitude is like cake. And a DJ attitude is like food in general. Follow? People(women) dont want to eat salt all buy its self, nor do they want food with too much salt. People will eat food as is without salt, but just a pinch makes it better, any more and its ruined. Now women love cake, its bad for them and they know it, yet they keep eating cake. Now salt has no place in the world of cakes. But food with a side of cake is a meal. Wow I amaze myself sometimes.
