"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What Women Want by David D - Good Short Video

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This guy saved my dating life about 14 years ago. He is full of no-nonsense advice mainly on what women are attracted to and how to keep a quality gf once you land her. I still read his weekly emails as "batting practice."

This is a good vid for the younger or aspiring DJs. It's not full of PUA BS, just good info on what you need to do and be to score a HQ woman. Enjoy.

What Women Want: https://doubleyourdating.com/ltfcpe...26550321e0fd3c17d82f64d5c237812e45f11ed92f62d

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is one of the better videos I've seen. I really did what he describes - I met the girl I thought was the most amazing girl in the world, and my purpose is to learn how to capture any woman's beauty, and their heart.
 

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David D was some of the earliest material I was exposed to in my early 20s along with SoSuave. His Deep Inner Game DVD series was worth every penny when I was just starting out in dating. I always got good book recommendations that supplemented his material well, like King, Warrior, Magician, & Lover, Way of the Superior Man.

I did a search on him on Wikipedia and learned he's a part of "The Syndicate"

Eben Pagan is a former real estate agent and pick-up artist under the pseudonym "David DeAngelo", who has since become a "full scale member" of The Syndicate. He sells relationship counseling products with his wife Annie Lalla.​

He's making money selling products, I can't blame the guy though. The self-improvement industry is huge. Again, I still benefitted from his material way back then and was influential in my thinking and how I approached dating, so no knocks there.

About the video:

What I took away was that developing a purpose is paramount if a man seeks to have a successful LTR. Attraction truly isn't a choice. However, how does a man keep her attracted? It's why we preach heavily on this forum to improve your SMV. Just having good looks is enough to get your foot in the door, though you need more than just that. You need to be after something in life. Something that inspires you.

David D: What do women want? They want a man who knows what he wants [authenticity, living in his frame]. He needs to know if she's interested in him because he needs to know if she's the right one for him [screening].​

Think Sam Kelly's Fire in the Belly book. "I know where I'm going. Who's going with me?" [natural leadership]
 

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David D has since gotten married and now focuses more on LTR products and coaching. Funny, one thing he has been saying recently is all of the techniques he has promoted since the early 2000's won't work on the woman who is the the one for you. His wife is a dating coach too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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