"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

what went wrong?

redbullfbu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2005
Messages
94
Reaction score
0
okay this 8.5 ive had a thing with for awhile...we hooked up friday and im pretty sure she enjoyed her self because the next morning she called me to come back over that minute. today, something was weird so i said "listen what the fvcks goin on my gut is tellin me theres somethin i should know and my gut is never wrong" and she says shes been talkin to her ex again and + the fact her brother hates me... so I got the ol' LJBF. keep in mind I never really had an AFC attitude towards her. its kinda weird why this happened all of a sudden. she seemed crazy about me when we had a thing.

im not so concerned about the fact that i wont fvck her now im concerned why im being put in the friend zone when im doing NOTHING THAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED 'LJBF' MATERIAL



somebody please tell me....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Plec07

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2006
Messages
383
Reaction score
7
Location
Berkshire, England
Well unless you give us more details we can't exactly tell you. Maybe you didn't do anything wrong and she just lost interest because she realised she prefered her ex.
 

Lust

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2007
Messages
833
Reaction score
19
Maybe her brother told her something about you, or made up something about you, she didn't like.

And the gut thing was her trying to get it out of you.

Or, it could be an incredibly hard and kinda weird **** test.
 
Top