"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what went wrong?

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okay this 8.5 ive had a thing with for awhile...we hooked up friday and im pretty sure she enjoyed her self because the next morning she called me to come back over that minute. today, something was weird so i said "listen what the fvcks goin on my gut is tellin me theres somethin i should know and my gut is never wrong" and she says shes been talkin to her ex again and + the fact her brother hates me... so I got the ol' LJBF. keep in mind I never really had an AFC attitude towards her. its kinda weird why this happened all of a sudden. she seemed crazy about me when we had a thing.

im not so concerned about the fact that i wont fvck her now im concerned why im being put in the friend zone when im doing NOTHING THAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED 'LJBF' MATERIAL



somebody please tell me....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well unless you give us more details we can't exactly tell you. Maybe you didn't do anything wrong and she just lost interest because she realised she prefered her ex.
 
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Maybe her brother told her something about you, or made up something about you, she didn't like.

And the gut thing was her trying to get it out of you.

Or, it could be an incredibly hard and kinda weird **** test.
 
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