"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i was at a party not to long ago, so we were just drinking and having fun, my buds decide to call up some girls, i let one of them use my phone. this one girl called it back and we started talking. told her i had to go. later on im sleeping and i get a call around 1 couldn't answer, and then later that day at around 2. fast forward, it turns out it's the girl i was talking to the other day.

we talk some, she seems really interested. im usually good at making them laugh on the phone, but i've been feeling off for the couple months, and im thinking im gonna lose this one. eventually she wanted pics, (she wasnt able to come to the party so she couldnt see me) i sent her some, (im not ugly so dont worry :up: ) no answer for a couple hours, eventually me and a bud bike to wal mart, end up home at around 1 or 2 am, find out she had called around 10:30 i decided to just wait and call her the next day.

i call her around 3 PM (no answer) it's 11 pm so i dont want to call to seem needy. im thinking about forgeting her but im not sure i want to bail just yet. what do you guys think?

also, im not a very funny guy, i watch comedy and all that. doesnt help. for some reason though i can really make em laugh on the phone, but over the summer that seems to have disappeared, now im just struggling trying to give them a good time. maybe she's bored of me or somethin. idk, any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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erm...IM not a DJ or all that good at the game, lol but this also happened to me in my past.. i would say use some ****y +Funny....poke fun at her....and dont force the funniness....let it come naturally!....i figured that my problem was that i was trying too hard!!(and yea...u can try too hard!! and it just ends up being the lamest thing u eva said lmao) So just chill...relax...and have fun with it!!
 
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i think your over reacting.
 
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You're analyzing this a bit much bro. From what it sounds like, you don't even really actually know the girl.
 
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Conquer said:
i think your over reacting.
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lol, nah. im just trying to figure out what mistakes i made. no biggie i could care less about her.

thanks Captin Krunch
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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