“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kevin1198

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i was at a party not to long ago, so we were just drinking and having fun, my buds decide to call up some girls, i let one of them use my phone. this one girl called it back and we started talking. told her i had to go. later on im sleeping and i get a call around 1 couldn't answer, and then later that day at around 2. fast forward, it turns out it's the girl i was talking to the other day.

we talk some, she seems really interested. im usually good at making them laugh on the phone, but i've been feeling off for the couple months, and im thinking im gonna lose this one. eventually she wanted pics, (she wasnt able to come to the party so she couldnt see me) i sent her some, (im not ugly so dont worry :up: ) no answer for a couple hours, eventually me and a bud bike to wal mart, end up home at around 1 or 2 am, find out she had called around 10:30 i decided to just wait and call her the next day.

i call her around 3 PM (no answer) it's 11 pm so i dont want to call to seem needy. im thinking about forgeting her but im not sure i want to bail just yet. what do you guys think?

also, im not a very funny guy, i watch comedy and all that. doesnt help. for some reason though i can really make em laugh on the phone, but over the summer that seems to have disappeared, now im just struggling trying to give them a good time. maybe she's bored of me or somethin. idk, any advice?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Captin Krunch

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erm...IM not a DJ or all that good at the game, lol but this also happened to me in my past.. i would say use some ****y +Funny....poke fun at her....and dont force the funniness....let it come naturally!....i figured that my problem was that i was trying too hard!!(and yea...u can try too hard!! and it just ends up being the lamest thing u eva said lmao) So just chill...relax...and have fun with it!!
 

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i think your over reacting.
 

Stblack

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You're analyzing this a bit much bro. From what it sounds like, you don't even really actually know the girl.
 

kevin1198

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Conquer said:
i think your over reacting.
lol, nah. im just trying to figure out what mistakes i made. no biggie i could care less about her.

thanks Captin Krunch
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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