"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what went wrong in this situation

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i was at a party not to long ago, so we were just drinking and having fun, my buds decide to call up some girls, i let one of them use my phone. this one girl called it back and we started talking. told her i had to go. later on im sleeping and i get a call around 1 couldn't answer, and then later that day at around 2. fast forward, it turns out it's the girl i was talking to the other day.

we talk some, she seems really interested. im usually good at making them laugh on the phone, but i've been feeling off for the couple months, and im thinking im gonna lose this one. eventually she wanted pics, (she wasnt able to come to the party so she couldnt see me) i sent her some, (im not ugly so dont worry :up: ) no answer for a couple hours, eventually me and a bud bike to wal mart, end up home at around 1 or 2 am, find out she had called around 10:30 i decided to just wait and call her the next day.

i call her around 3 PM (no answer) it's 11 pm so i dont want to call to seem needy. im thinking about forgeting her but im not sure i want to bail just yet. what do you guys think?

also, im not a very funny guy, i watch comedy and all that. doesnt help. for some reason though i can really make em laugh on the phone, but over the summer that seems to have disappeared, now im just struggling trying to give them a good time. maybe she's bored of me or somethin. idk, any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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erm...IM not a DJ or all that good at the game, lol but this also happened to me in my past.. i would say use some ****y +Funny....poke fun at her....and dont force the funniness....let it come naturally!....i figured that my problem was that i was trying too hard!!(and yea...u can try too hard!! and it just ends up being the lamest thing u eva said lmao) So just chill...relax...and have fun with it!!
 
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i think your over reacting.
 
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You're analyzing this a bit much bro. From what it sounds like, you don't even really actually know the girl.
 
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Conquer said:
i think your over reacting.
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lol, nah. im just trying to figure out what mistakes i made. no biggie i could care less about her.

thanks Captin Krunch
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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