"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LongDrinkofWater

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Interesting thread.
I read most of it, and something was missing. Nowhere did I see any references to you two kissing each other. Seems like with everything that's happened over the years between you two, and the fact that you have stated mulitple times you had feelings for him, you have never actually kissed him. I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek, but a full on fu'ck-me kiss. I'm guessing that would probably settle him down a bit, and possibly open up some conversation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DreamyChick

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LongDrinkofWater said:
Interesting thread.
I read most of it, and something was missing. Nowhere did I see any references to you two kissing each other. Seems like with everything that's happened over the years between you two, and the fact that you have stated mulitple times you had feelings for him, you have never actually kissed him. I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek, but a full on fu'ck-me kiss. I'm guessing that would probably settle him down a bit, and possibly open up some conversation.
No you are correct. We haven't kissed and didnt you read my last post. When we talked I heard from him that he is not interested in going past friendship with me, so why are yall saying he wants me. I mean he pretty much denied that he was trying to sleep with me. What are you seeing that I am not? Why shouldn't I take him at his word.

He did fess up to testing me to see if I wanted sex, which I knew he was doing bc I told him I didn't ever want to have sex, so he said he was rubbing my leg to prove that I did. He said he asked if I was nervous and hugged me to get me to relax around him. I mean it seems like he really is only interested in my friendship.
 

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DreamyChick said:
No you are correct. We haven't kissed and didnt you read my last post. When we talked I heard from him that he is not interested in going past friendship with me, so why are yall saying he wants me. I mean he pretty much denied that he was trying to sleep with me. What are you seeing that I am not? Why shouldn't I take him at his word.

He did fess up to testing me to see if I wanted sex, which I knew he was doing bc I told him I didn't ever want to have sex, so he said he was rubbing my leg to prove that I did. He said he asked if I was nervous and hugged me to get me to relax around him. I mean it seems like he really is only interested in my friendship.
Because when a man with no balls is confronted by a c*cktease like you he will deny having feelings for and being attracted to you to save face.
 
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