"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LongDrinkofWater

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Interesting thread.
I read most of it, and something was missing. Nowhere did I see any references to you two kissing each other. Seems like with everything that's happened over the years between you two, and the fact that you have stated mulitple times you had feelings for him, you have never actually kissed him. I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek, but a full on fu'ck-me kiss. I'm guessing that would probably settle him down a bit, and possibly open up some conversation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LongDrinkofWater said:
Interesting thread.
I read most of it, and something was missing. Nowhere did I see any references to you two kissing each other. Seems like with everything that's happened over the years between you two, and the fact that you have stated mulitple times you had feelings for him, you have never actually kissed him. I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek, but a full on fu'ck-me kiss. I'm guessing that would probably settle him down a bit, and possibly open up some conversation.
No you are correct. We haven't kissed and didnt you read my last post. When we talked I heard from him that he is not interested in going past friendship with me, so why are yall saying he wants me. I mean he pretty much denied that he was trying to sleep with me. What are you seeing that I am not? Why shouldn't I take him at his word.

He did fess up to testing me to see if I wanted sex, which I knew he was doing bc I told him I didn't ever want to have sex, so he said he was rubbing my leg to prove that I did. He said he asked if I was nervous and hugged me to get me to relax around him. I mean it seems like he really is only interested in my friendship.
 

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DreamyChick said:
No you are correct. We haven't kissed and didnt you read my last post. When we talked I heard from him that he is not interested in going past friendship with me, so why are yall saying he wants me. I mean he pretty much denied that he was trying to sleep with me. What are you seeing that I am not? Why shouldn't I take him at his word.

He did fess up to testing me to see if I wanted sex, which I knew he was doing bc I told him I didn't ever want to have sex, so he said he was rubbing my leg to prove that I did. He said he asked if I was nervous and hugged me to get me to relax around him. I mean it seems like he really is only interested in my friendship.
Because when a man with no balls is confronted by a c*cktease like you he will deny having feelings for and being attracted to you to save face.
 
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