Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what was the biggest red flag she unintentionally gave you?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
1) One girl once told me, while we were sitting having a cup of coffee on our first date, "I used to shoplift when I was younger". Just out of the blue like that. I thought she was a complete fruitcake for telling me that, especially on a first date!
2) A 21 yr girl I met in a nightclub last year tried to bull**** me with "I have a 45 year old bf at home and he always buys me stuff and treats me like a princess". Needless to say, she was lying and it put me off right away.
3) One girl I met last year and started emailing, when I tried flirting with her over email she said "I'm going to ignore the flirting...". I lost interest after that.
There are lots more examples I could give if I think back over the years, but those are the ones that stand out.
Girls give out unintentional 'red flags' all the time, and as an Enlightened Seducer you should be able to spot these red flags so you can weed out the girls who are worthy of your time from those who are not.
Mike32ct
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1) Having known a girl for 45 minutes, we're dancing slow - an accident, it came on as we hit the floor. "I'm not a virgin. I was abused by my grandfather when I was six."
I twirled her away, and by the time she finished spinning, I was gone.
2) After two days of good game. "You can come over tonight, but only for a few hours. I live with...brace yourself...my fiance. But he's gone until ten it's ok!"
I stuck around long enough to look at pictures on her phone when I thought she was joking. I went outside "for a fag". No, I went outside for a run!
3) After sex. "I haven't been ridden that hard since I was 13. You were fantastic."
If you think men only sneak out of windows and down drainpipes in sitcoms, I proved you wrong on this day.
Badmannaz
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that was the funniest sh*t ever!!! :crackup:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
:crackup: At least she didnt say, "damn, you're better than my daddy!"Cabal said:
I was hitting on a chick,and she said she was still really hung up on her ex. Then she mentioned it was my drummer, in my last band that broke up a few months earlier. They dated...get this...15 years ago!
Bible_Belt
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Ridingthelightning
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-Any abuse as a child
-Divorced parents
-Constant me, myself, and I talk
-Being too quiet
-Being too loud
-B!tchyness towards anything when I meet her the first time
-Crying over nothing
-Unintelligence
-Improper grammar
-etc. etc.
The odd thing was she seemed to really like me. but her personality was way too off-putting
i tell you i went cold and when i got off of the bus at my stop i didnt look back once.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
yeah something about the way she said it and the look on her face, then she had a damn why did i say that look,horaholic said:
my prob is no normal girl would get that deep straight away this was my first convo with her apart from hi and byes
and to be fair she said quite a few other things and her general body language were just (oh poor me im stressed)
and i didnt bail that was my stop