"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what was the biggest red flag she unintentionally gave you?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
1) One girl once told me, while we were sitting having a cup of coffee on our first date, "I used to shoplift when I was younger". Just out of the blue like that. I thought she was a complete fruitcake for telling me that, especially on a first date!
2) A 21 yr girl I met in a nightclub last year tried to bull**** me with "I have a 45 year old bf at home and he always buys me stuff and treats me like a princess". Needless to say, she was lying and it put me off right away.
3) One girl I met last year and started emailing, when I tried flirting with her over email she said "I'm going to ignore the flirting...". I lost interest after that.
There are lots more examples I could give if I think back over the years, but those are the ones that stand out.
Girls give out unintentional 'red flags' all the time, and as an Enlightened Seducer you should be able to spot these red flags so you can weed out the girls who are worthy of your time from those who are not.
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1) Having known a girl for 45 minutes, we're dancing slow - an accident, it came on as we hit the floor. "I'm not a virgin. I was abused by my grandfather when I was six."
I twirled her away, and by the time she finished spinning, I was gone.
2) After two days of good game. "You can come over tonight, but only for a few hours. I live with...brace yourself...my fiance. But he's gone until ten it's ok!"
I stuck around long enough to look at pictures on her phone when I thought she was joking. I went outside "for a fag". No, I went outside for a run!
3) After sex. "I haven't been ridden that hard since I was 13. You were fantastic."
If you think men only sneak out of windows and down drainpipes in sitcoms, I proved you wrong on this day.
Badmannaz
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that was the funniest sh*t ever!!! :crackup:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: At least she didnt say, "damn, you're better than my daddy!"Cabal said:
I was hitting on a chick,and she said she was still really hung up on her ex. Then she mentioned it was my drummer, in my last band that broke up a few months earlier. They dated...get this...15 years ago!
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Ridingthelightning
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-Any abuse as a child
-Divorced parents
-Constant me, myself, and I talk
-Being too quiet
-Being too loud
-B!tchyness towards anything when I meet her the first time
-Crying over nothing
-Unintelligence
-Improper grammar
-etc. etc.
The odd thing was she seemed to really like me. but her personality was way too off-putting
i tell you i went cold and when i got off of the bus at my stop i didnt look back once.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yeah something about the way she said it and the look on her face, then she had a damn why did i say that look,horaholic said:
my prob is no normal girl would get that deep straight away this was my first convo with her apart from hi and byes
and to be fair she said quite a few other things and her general body language were just (oh poor me im stressed)
and i didnt bail that was my stop