"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What value do YOU DJ's of SS provide a woman?

Bumsniff

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All the talk about what value a woman brings to the table but what value do YOU DJ's of SS provide a woman? I'm talking reality here. Not what you "wish and hope" you can provide.

Why would some 10, 9, 8 or even 7 have to settle for any of you when they could find themselves men of more value? What makes YOU better than the next man?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Tall, Handsome, charming. Self employed and a demon in the sack. :D
 

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If Im in an LTR, and shes puts work into the relationship so do I. As do most DJs here (I hope). Im not afraid to cook her dinner so long as she cooks me dinner, nor do I find that beta or AFC. Thats just an example though

If shes just a one night stand or a pick up, the only Value I give her is what she gives me. Sex.
 

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OP

Your only thought as a man is what she can do for you

not what you can do for her

don't be a faggot
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Allow her to express her feminine essence and will to please her man by letting her cook and clean.

Keep her on her toes and give her the drama she craves with the threat of dropping her like a hot rock if she drops the ball. I also unashamedly show a keen interest in other womens asses to spark her competitive chick streak.

Sometimes remember her birthday to show her I care.

Slap her ass hard, burp, fart and shout loudly in public. Not sure what that does but it makes her blush and brings her out of her comfort zone. that's got to be good.

That's some legit value she won't get from just any herbling off the street.
 

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I'm not surprised by the responses of men who spend years online on seduction sites. It's no wonder most of you will be stuck in bitter depression and anger on a site like sosuave beating your chests for the approval of other mental cases. No real woman who offers anything would waste her time with you jokers.

Sorry to burst your bubble heads but there's much better men out there than you claim to be. So why would any decent woman with a head on her shoulders and good looks waste her time caring for DJ dead weight unless she's the BPD women you losers can't help yourselves from dating?
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OK guys, clearly bumsniff is a female troll. Look at her other posts.

How do we punish women who misbehave?
 

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Not a woman. Bumsniff would either be a dog or a gay fella. Who else do you know that sniffs bums?

As for the question, plenty of betas with huge values to offer get friendzoned, while certain blokes who have nothing useful to contribute to society or offer a woman are swimming in pvssies.
 

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Burroughs said:

OP

Your only thought as a man is what she can do for you

not what you can do for her

don't be a faggot
I'm with Burroughs. ::speaking in a yoda voice to Burroughs about Bumsniff:: "The faggotry is STRONG with this one!"
 

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If i am in the mood, I give them the most amazing experience they have ever had...i also give them a lot of insight and the chance to look up to someone who they are attracted to...in short, I give them myself, something that can be taken away from them at any moment....this stuff goes far beyond money, status and hahaha cooking...seriously, cooking is the woman's job
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Burroughs said:

OP

Your only thought as a man is what she can do for you

not what you can do for her

don't be a faggot
Burroughs is a Wise man
 

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burroughs is a fvccing moron, and if you cant see that, so are you. I provide protection, attention US citizenship, guidance/instruction, money, comradeship, intelligent conversation, status, concern about her health and happiness, humor, much more is guaranteed to occur to me later, but I'm tired right now.
 

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twentee said:
burroughs is a fvccing moron, and if you cant see that, so are you.

Dont sweat him, you get a lot of lonely guys here too. Not just AFCs, PUAs and DJs
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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