"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What type of person are you?

After reading the description, which type of person are you?

  • Type 1

    Votes: 5 13.5%

  • Type 2

    Votes: 5 13.5%

  • Type 3

    Votes: 8 21.6%

  • Type 4

    Votes: 2 5.4%

  • Type 5

    Votes: 5 13.5%

  • Type 6

    Votes: 3 8.1%

  • Type 7

    Votes: 6 16.2%

  • Type 8

    Votes: 3 8.1%
  • Total voters
    37
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There are different types of people, and I'm interested to see if there are any correlation with success with women.
Choose the type you most closely resemble:

Type 1: Is a DJ. Generally outgoing and likes to get things done quickly
Type 2: Is a DJ. Generally quiet and likes to get things done quickly
Type 3: Is a DJ. Generally outgoing, easy going and patient
Type 4: Is a DJ. Generally quiet, easy going and patient
Type 5: Is not a DJ. Generally outgoing and likes to things done quickly
Type 6: Is not a DJ. Generally quiet and likes to get things done quickly
Type 7: Is not a DJ. Generally outgoing, easy going and patient
Type 8: Is not a DJ. Generally quiet, easy going and patient
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know if I'm ANY of these things.


I'm going through a transitional period here, as a lot of us are, so these may change quickly.

(voted 7)
 
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Generally outgoing is an understatement.

(voted 1)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Usually Type 1, but has all the other tendencies. Very delibreate if I don't want to be hurried on a task.
 
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Type 6. I'm far from a DJ but doing whatever I can to reach that goal. My ideal self would be type 1 but I've gotta work on my social skills a little more.
 
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Wanted to see if these traits had trends on being a DJ or not. There's not really enough votes yet to say what the results are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know if it's up to myself to decide if I'm a DJ, and these seem a little too specific, but the closest would be either 3 or 7. I didn't vote though.
 
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