mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Strippers tend to be mentally unstable. I'd suspect porn actresses are a level further.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What Type Of Girls Take Part In Porn?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, this is generally quite true. If they weren't unstable before, the job itself will drive them unstable.
And the reason is because strippers deal with a lot of rejection when hustling for dances - not necessarily because they're ugly, but because a lot of guys in the strip clubs are too broke to afford multiple lap dances, or they have a favorite dancer and will only spend money on her, and the popular clubs have a huge roster of girls so they have to constantly compete with each other for dances from horny guys....
Imagine the psychological toll a stripper feels when she's on stage and barely gets any tips, but the girl on stage before her had hundreds of dollars being rained down on her..... this makes her feel like sh1t because a female's entire sense of self-worth bases on how much attention/money she can get from men....
The constant rejection and having to witness other dancers rake in huge sums of cash usually drives them insane...
Ironically, this type of constant rejection is what most guys deal with in the dating arena, but most women are oblivious to the psychological toll it takes on men...
Constant rejection is psychologically damaging, whether it's rejection in dating, rejection from a job interviews, or rejection from social circles.....
Its a bit of a chicken or egg conundrum but most strippers get into it because they can't hold down a real job since that would require them to be drug free, show up in time, be respectful, etc, and even if they had the ability to do these things they couldn't make near the money they make stripping. So what happens is these mentally unstable women, many of whom get into stripping as druggies to start with, are suddenly flush with tons of cash. What do you think they do with it? Well it sure isn't getting spent on a college fund for their illegitimate children or going into their 401k. Its going up their nose or to their pimp/boyfriends. This exacerbates whatever issues they had to start with and they end up dead, in prison or on welfare once their looks fade. Pornstars are just strippers with a bit more marketing talent and a higher class of pimp. At least that's the case for most of them.
There's all kinds. Some even MENSA members or that have Master's degrees.
One sugar baby I knew was involved in all sorts of things to get her PHD.
One call girl I met in South America was saving for her 3rd rental unit purchase.
Some gals have a purpose or goal in mind while others just are reckless and really don't have a good strategy.
One sugar baby I knew was involved in all sorts of things to get her PHD.
One call girl I met in South America was saving for her 3rd rental unit purchase.
Some gals have a purpose or goal in mind while others just are reckless and really don't have a good strategy.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's the minority. I know one who used it for law degree. The majority are not that.
Haha, of course. I definitely agree with you there but just pointing out that all sorts of girls get into porn. Not just the damaged ones.
Asia Carerra being one of those Mensa members who got a full scholarship to Rutgers University and is said to have scored around 156 IQ. Who would've thunk that one of the most popular porn stars of her day...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They still get fvcked in the head due to compartamentalization. But yes all types have gone in. I appreciate the "good" strip club stories. But there are plenty of capers and setups.
Absolutely true. A fun fact, a lot of pornstars also do rounds in strip clubs. They leverage their porn fame to hustle thirsty dudes out of their hard-earned money.....
....these guys are willing to pay a premium just so they can tell their buddies that they got lap dances or even a VIP with a pornstar.....
I've got some VIPs with a few porn stars during my day.... some of them were just minor porn performers, and some of them were major pornstars whose names you guys would recognize (but I'm not calling out any names)....
The most successful pornstars have that hustler mentality......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
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That stuff you showed is not prn, it is strip tease.
bat soup
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If you think about it, it's a terrible career. Even if you don't care about the moral aspect, it's a career that starts at 18 and ends at 30, with pay cuts every year and not a high salary to start.
Plus, of course, it must be hard to sit down afterwards.
Plus, of course, it must be hard to sit down afterwards.
These days the average most stay in porn is 2 years. 10 years was something you could do 20-30 years ago.
Girls are easily used and discarded more than ever before, partly due to society's ADD nature.
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All kinds...these sites that show middle aged random women that come get banged out by dudes that film them because its always been a fantasy of theirs are popping up all over the place.
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Many get into porn through legit modelling... There will be a bunch of girls who are dead cert model material who will make it...
The girls that are not quite model material, but still rather hot, well there handlers will encourage them more towards the porn Route.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Saw a documentary once where a doctor was interviewed about the repair work she did on porn stars anuses
after they've been railed out by very big men. Nice work if you can get it....
after they've been railed out by very big men. Nice work if you can get it....
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Link to documentary.Saw a documentary once where a doctor was interviewed about the repair work she did on porn stars anuses
after they've been railed out by very big men. Nice work if you can get it....
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
It was on tv in the UK some years ago, it was a more general documentary about the porn industry, but that part grossed me
out so much that it stuck in my mind. Can't remember the title or I'd go and search for it. The doctor interviewed was American.
out so much that it stuck in my mind. Can't remember the title or I'd go and search for it. The doctor interviewed was American.