"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to write on back of picture
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Master Disaster
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earthshyne
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Include a note or something else in an envelope with the picture. Or, better yet, have the picture framed in one of those frames that has places for two pictures. Put the picture in one, the note in the other. Very romantic.
Give it to her after the prom, as a memento of a wonderful evening. Then fvck her so hard she'll never forget it.
The Master Disaster
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GET-ER-DONE
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
Example:
Hey you!
Take good care of this picture...and yourself!
HER NAME in big writing
your signiture
and finally date it in the lower corner.
Basically don't over do it or make a big deal out of it.
eggnawgkid
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Yea, that's true most people do write on the back of pictures. And the pen won't show through so don't worry about that. The two picture frame idea sounds really good though so I'd look into that if I were you.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
you definately stole this from me, who stole it from that redneck dude
penkitten
Master Don Juan
hey you, take care of this picture
from me dont write her name, or yours....
make sure you put a smiley face hahaha
The Master Disaster
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The Picture frame idea is good for a girl. To much thought was put into that no offense. If you do that picture frame thing you'll show you care about her and she'll get board.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
look, this really annoys me. You are never going to lose a girl by showing too much interest (well it would be pretty damn hard) if you are confident and capable of living your own life (ie attractive).
I think the picture frame idea is wicked, but hey, i have no clue about women, compared to these n00bs.
I dont believe that a post like this got this many replies...
WTF... You want to know what to write on the back of a Fu<king picture?
come on man.. this is bullsh!t
i dont mean to say this to u if you are new, and just striking up conversation.. however if you are honestly asking people who dont know anything about this girl, what to say on the back of a picture, man..
if you cant make this decision on your own maybe you should take a step back and focus on a bigger problem?
sigh, well i guess the only advice i can give u about this without being a dumbass is just to say what you honestly think of her. By that I mean write what made you ask her to the prom.
Also, I guess what i do is make sure i use my own personality (that sounds stupid but you're the one asking) Since i am a more laid back and funny type, i would go with humor. As for what to really write, why was she so special? Her smarts? Her smile? Her lucious ass!?
for a normal picture i would say something like:
Example: "Hey genie, just thinking of you :], and your nice ass. See you later!, pro 2005"
however i hope you wouldnt be asking about some normal picture. earthshyne's is probably the best advice as his is the most personal. Girls tend to like that sh!t, as they will run around all day with the envelope out just for social proof..
.. at least thats how most of the girls I know act. Good luck i guess in this huge turmoil you have here =] later
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
^Sounds good!