I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yea, that's true most people do write on the back of pictures. And the pen won't show through so don't worry about that. The two picture frame idea sounds really good though so I'd look into that if I were you.Originally posted by bud_2005
What do you mean don't write on the back of the picture. Everybody writes a little note on the back of pictures they give to people.
The picture is of me.
you definately stole this from me, who stole it from that redneck dudeOriginally posted by The Master Disaster
GET-ER-DONE
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
look, this really annoys me. You are never going to lose a girl by showing too much interest (well it would be pretty damn hard) if you are confident and capable of living your own life (ie attractive).Originally posted by The Master Disaster
If its not important picture you could put something sexual on the back and that'll get her to fell some sh1t and want to fvck you right there.
The Picture frame idea is good for a girl. To much thought was put into that no offense. If you do that picture frame thing you'll show you care about her and she'll get board.
^Sounds good!Hey you!
Take good care of this picture...and yourself!
HER NAME in big writing