"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to write in yearbooks

S.Y.L

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We get ours soon, and I was thinking, what should I write in various girls yearbooks who I think are good looking, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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War Against Betaism

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The first thing I should tell you is that unless a girl already has feelings for you, don't expect much from a simple exchange of paragraphs. With that said, talk about a good experience you had with whoever's year book you're writing that you guys had (unless it's private and personal). Make sure that you bring up a good memory though because she is going to be looking back at her year book and she'll remember that memory and associate it with you because you were the one that wrote it.

Also, what I did was end it with a "keep in contact!" and then leave my myspace or facebook link. I don't like leaving my number.
 

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S.Y.L said:
We get ours soon, and I was thinking, what should I write in various girls yearbooks who I think are good looking, etc.
This is actually a very interesting thread you started here S.Y.L :cool:

I'm in the same exact position as you right now - being a Senior, graduating High School, signing yearbooks, trying to keep in touch with all the cuties we couldn't get before but probably have more than enough finess to game them now... you now the drill ;)

War Against Betaism's comment about keeping in contact & then leaving some contact info is a really useful hint! :up:

Hopefully we'll get some more even better information from the older Don Juans who'll be more then happy to help a few of the younger cats out.... KontrollerX anyone? :D
 

Xptboy

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honestly... who cares??? it's a friggen yearbook... just say something to give them a memory of you, and tell them to keep in touch. not like a yearbook signature will change their opinion of you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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