"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to write in yearbooks

S.Y.L

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We get ours soon, and I was thinking, what should I write in various girls yearbooks who I think are good looking, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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The first thing I should tell you is that unless a girl already has feelings for you, don't expect much from a simple exchange of paragraphs. With that said, talk about a good experience you had with whoever's year book you're writing that you guys had (unless it's private and personal). Make sure that you bring up a good memory though because she is going to be looking back at her year book and she'll remember that memory and associate it with you because you were the one that wrote it.

Also, what I did was end it with a "keep in contact!" and then leave my myspace or facebook link. I don't like leaving my number.
 

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S.Y.L said:
We get ours soon, and I was thinking, what should I write in various girls yearbooks who I think are good looking, etc.
This is actually a very interesting thread you started here S.Y.L :cool:

I'm in the same exact position as you right now - being a Senior, graduating High School, signing yearbooks, trying to keep in touch with all the cuties we couldn't get before but probably have more than enough finess to game them now... you now the drill ;)

War Against Betaism's comment about keeping in contact & then leaving some contact info is a really useful hint! :up:

Hopefully we'll get some more even better information from the older Don Juans who'll be more then happy to help a few of the younger cats out.... KontrollerX anyone? :D
 

Xptboy

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honestly... who cares??? it's a friggen yearbook... just say something to give them a memory of you, and tell them to keep in touch. not like a yearbook signature will change their opinion of you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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