foomee
Senior Don Juan
So what do you guys usually wear when you go out to clubs?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lol... speaking of generic lemmings.Bahram36 said:But if you dress like that in say LA or OC where Im from youll look like every other generic lemming who doesnt know what to wear (Im not hating on the guy above)
If you wanna stand out yet not be too crazy, wear some sick checkered vans, a nice fitted blazer, and a crazy designed tshirt, with a couple of necklaces and such... Anything to make it unique...
No matter how common the look I mentioned you might think is, there is nothing more common than the "I have no sense of style and have no idea what to wear so I ran to nordstroms picked up the most expensive jeans and then to express and picked up a generic collared shirt" look... Thats only for people who have no clue and choose to take the safe route....DarkLight said:lol... speaking of generic lemmings.
Bro... your recipe for style might be considered the L.A. thing... but straight up... I couldn't think of a more non-unique outfit. Every douche in L.A. is on the checkered Van, Blazer, Bad-Ass t-shirt Bullsh!t, combo.
Or actually maybe not the checkered Van thing. Its pretty played out by now, and teenie/OC styles.
My advice to the poster. Mix some elegant nice sh!t, with some hard sh!t. But not as 1-2-3 as our generic lemming above advised. While he's mighty stylized (and I'll give him that), his style is every other cat out theres. Why do you think Urban Outfitters sells his total recipe!?
Get some fat nice sh!t, then maybe a few things from harder styles thrown in.
Think Elegant GQ/Bad-Ass Punk.
(but above all, make sure the combo is something unique and new)
You don't want their minds to already have a stamp on what it is.
You want people to sort of question if the wtf...sh!t is hip or not?
Like someone else posted above... your charisma rocking it, will be the tilting factor.
Trend-Setters are the ones that SET the TRENDS.
Not just rock the current level well.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
gimmeyofonenumba said:At the club I usually wear a polo striped collared shirt and jeans. I dont put a whole lotta thinking into what i wear really, I think characters and posture conveys probably just as much or even more. Iam not a person for accessories and crap, when it gets that far it is becoming to feminine. I dont even wear jewelry other than a watch.
Braham thoose shirts are awesome though, I'd probably wear the T5 one for sure the others i like as well and would prolly wear with jeans no jacket or w/e and probably sneakers. Do you design um yourself? you ever try desiging one with a Crucifix, Cross, or some kinda Christian resemblence.