foomee
Senior Don Juan
So what do you guys usually wear when you go out to clubs?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what to wear to clubs?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Designer jeans, a nice button up shirt with vertical stripes(top button undone of course). Casual shoes(make sure your belt and shoes match, girls notice sh*t like that). A splash of cologne. And for f*cks sake don't wear white socks unless you're going to the gym!
Can't go wrong with that.
Can't go wrong with that.
poohead
Senior Don Juan
scope out the club beforehand, maybe check out their website. find the hottest babies and look at the dudes they are hanging with. wear that.
Depends where youre from.. If youre from anywhere outside of the big cities of LA, NY, Miami etc wear something generic like what the guy above me posted... But if you dress like that in say LA or OC where Im from youll look like every other generic lemming who doesnt know what to wear (Im not hating on the guy above)
If you wanna stand out yet not be too crazy, wear some sick checkered vans, a nice fitted blazer, and a crazy designed tshirt, with a couple of necklaces and such... Anything to make it unique...
Im not saying that I have the best fashion sense but check out my few myspace pics for idea, www.myspace.com/Bahram_
And maybe shirts like these ones from my clothing line for under the jacket
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T4.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/Thermal1.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T5.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T22.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T19.jpg
If you wanna stand out yet not be too crazy, wear some sick checkered vans, a nice fitted blazer, and a crazy designed tshirt, with a couple of necklaces and such... Anything to make it unique...
Im not saying that I have the best fashion sense but check out my few myspace pics for idea, www.myspace.com/Bahram_
And maybe shirts like these ones from my clothing line for under the jacket
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T4.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/Thermal1.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T5.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T22.jpg
http://www.iranfootball2006.com/Tshirt/T19.jpg
WC2
Master Don Juan
Set yourself apart bro.
When I go out to a nice club where everyone is wearing button downs and dress pants, I simply wear a nice muscle top, jeans, and some stylish sneakers (some nice nikes or newbals)
When I goto your average every day club where guys wear anything from tee shirts to sleeveless tops, I go all out and wear a nice button down with black pants and black shoes.
Believe it or not, you may get some awkward looks from guys but who cares! Girls will look at you and say, hey theres a man who's not afraid to set himself apart. I've gotten compliments from girls all the time when I'm not dressed like all my boys
Don't go overboard though, looking different all the time can sometimes make it seem to obvious that you're trying to set yourself apart
When I go out to a nice club where everyone is wearing button downs and dress pants, I simply wear a nice muscle top, jeans, and some stylish sneakers (some nice nikes or newbals)
When I goto your average every day club where guys wear anything from tee shirts to sleeveless tops, I go all out and wear a nice button down with black pants and black shoes.
Believe it or not, you may get some awkward looks from guys but who cares! Girls will look at you and say, hey theres a man who's not afraid to set himself apart. I've gotten compliments from girls all the time when I'm not dressed like all my boys
Don't go overboard though, looking different all the time can sometimes make it seem to obvious that you're trying to set yourself apart
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Only problem with the checked vans thing is that some clubs won't let you in unless you've got shoes. Just got to know the dresscode of wear you're headed out to. I checked out your pics. Cool style.
Keep in mind folks that style isn't just about what you wear, it's your charisma too. You make the clothes as much as the clothes make you. I've seen some dudes dress with nothing but a tshirt and jeans, but it looks cool on them because they've got the charisma to make it look cool.
Keep in mind folks that style isn't just about what you wear, it's your charisma too. You make the clothes as much as the clothes make you. I've seen some dudes dress with nothing but a tshirt and jeans, but it looks cool on them because they've got the charisma to make it look cool.
LoL@ Bahram's promoting himself (Nothing wrong with that)!!
Depends on dress code.
If it's in effect, meaning no runners, hats or ripped jeans
Then dress shoes, khakis and dress shirt. The safest route to go is black (shoes and pants) and a shirt that you think looks good with your tone.
Blue is a safe color if you're still unsure... but tell me what color you skin tone is, I can give you further comments.
No dress code (Usually for rock club)
Runners and jeans (Designer or not, doesn't matter... as long as it's stylish... depending on the look you're going for. I'd say a pair of loose fit jeans, not baggy like your underwear's gonna fall off too.
As for the top, pretty much, anything you're comfortable in... T-shirt, simple design Puma, French Connexion are simples ones.
You can choose your T-shirt depending on your hair style too... again if you tell me how long your hair is (spiked etc.) i can give further suggestions.
Depends on dress code.
If it's in effect, meaning no runners, hats or ripped jeans
Then dress shoes, khakis and dress shirt. The safest route to go is black (shoes and pants) and a shirt that you think looks good with your tone.
Blue is a safe color if you're still unsure... but tell me what color you skin tone is, I can give you further comments.
No dress code (Usually for rock club)
Runners and jeans (Designer or not, doesn't matter... as long as it's stylish... depending on the look you're going for. I'd say a pair of loose fit jeans, not baggy like your underwear's gonna fall off too.
As for the top, pretty much, anything you're comfortable in... T-shirt, simple design Puma, French Connexion are simples ones.
You can choose your T-shirt depending on your hair style too... again if you tell me how long your hair is (spiked etc.) i can give further suggestions.
lol... speaking of generic lemmings.Bahram36 said:But if you dress like that in say LA or OC where Im from youll look like every other generic lemming who doesnt know what to wear (Im not hating on the guy above)
If you wanna stand out yet not be too crazy, wear some sick checkered vans, a nice fitted blazer, and a crazy designed tshirt, with a couple of necklaces and such... Anything to make it unique...
Bro... your recipe for style might be considered the L.A. thing... but straight up... I couldn't think of a more non-unique outfit. Every douche in L.A. is on the checkered Van, Blazer, Bad-Ass t-shirt Bullsh!t, combo.
Or actually maybe not the checkered Van thing. Its pretty played out by now, and teenie/OC styles.
My advice to the poster. Mix some elegant nice sh!t, with some hard sh!t. But not as 1-2-3 as our generic lemming above advised. While he's mighty stylized (and I'll give him that), his style is every other cat out theres. Why do you think Urban Outfitters sells his total recipe!?
Get some fat nice sh!t, then maybe a few things from harder styles thrown in.
Think Elegant GQ/Bad-Ass Punk.
(but above all, make sure the combo is something unique and new)
You don't want their minds to already have a stamp on what it is.
You want people to sort of question if the wtf...sh!t is hip or not?
Like someone else posted above... your charisma rocking it, will be the tilting factor.
Trend-Setters are the ones that SET the TRENDS.
Not just rock the current level well.
No matter how common the look I mentioned you might think is, there is nothing more common than the "I have no sense of style and have no idea what to wear so I ran to nordstroms picked up the most expensive jeans and then to express and picked up a generic collared shirt" look... Thats only for people who have no clue and choose to take the safe route....DarkLight said:lol... speaking of generic lemmings.
Bro... your recipe for style might be considered the L.A. thing... but straight up... I couldn't think of a more non-unique outfit. Every douche in L.A. is on the checkered Van, Blazer, Bad-Ass t-shirt Bullsh!t, combo.
Or actually maybe not the checkered Van thing. Its pretty played out by now, and teenie/OC styles.
My advice to the poster. Mix some elegant nice sh!t, with some hard sh!t. But not as 1-2-3 as our generic lemming above advised. While he's mighty stylized (and I'll give him that), his style is every other cat out theres. Why do you think Urban Outfitters sells his total recipe!?
Get some fat nice sh!t, then maybe a few things from harder styles thrown in.
Think Elegant GQ/Bad-Ass Punk.
(but above all, make sure the combo is something unique and new)
You don't want their minds to already have a stamp on what it is.
You want people to sort of question if the wtf...sh!t is hip or not?
Like someone else posted above... your charisma rocking it, will be the tilting factor.
Trend-Setters are the ones that SET the TRENDS.
Not just rock the current level well.
I wouldnt consider my style as a generic form of what everyones wearing at all... Its all a matter of how you sport it... You can of course get a simple black and white checkered vans and some 7 jeans, a plain jacket and some OBEY tshirt and rock it, but then youll look like every other person...
However if you wear some cream and brown shoes vans (the new ones) or even chucks with majorly torn jeans or even slacks, a plaid jacket with a crazy design on the back, and a tshirt with abnormal prints and colors you will hardly look like anyone else... And also like I said, the accessories set you over the top...
People always message me and say "what do you classify your style as" or "are you into punk or preppy" and I love that, because truth is Im neither... I have the heart of hip hop, dress kinda punky, yet carry myself preppy (not corky)... I think you should do the same... If you have the confidence for it, keep people on their toes and guessing... But remember its more than clothes, not too sound too metro but the hair and like I said accessories has to go with it too
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Whateve you want. I use to say collared shirt and jeans. Recently I've worn nice tshirts sports coat (although summer season is hitting) and jeans/khakis. There are a ton of combinations
Usually pants of somekind shorts are a no no as are tennis shoes. No jerseys and no thug gear. Just use your head and don't dress like an idiot and you should be good
Usually pants of somekind shorts are a no no as are tennis shoes. No jerseys and no thug gear. Just use your head and don't dress like an idiot and you should be good
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
At the club I usually wear a polo striped collared shirt and jeans. I dont put a whole lotta thinking into what i wear really, I think characters and posture conveys probably just as much or even more. Iam not a person for accessories and crap, when it gets that far it is becoming to feminine. I dont even wear jewelry other than a watch.
Braham thoose shirts are awesome though, I'd probably wear the T5 one for sure the others i like as well and would prolly wear with jeans no jacket or w/e and probably sneakers. Do you design um yourself? you ever try desiging one with a Crucifix, Cross, or some kinda Christian resemblence.
Braham thoose shirts are awesome though, I'd probably wear the T5 one for sure the others i like as well and would prolly wear with jeans no jacket or w/e and probably sneakers. Do you design um yourself? you ever try desiging one with a Crucifix, Cross, or some kinda Christian resemblence.
gimmeyofonenumba said:At the club I usually wear a polo striped collared shirt and jeans. I dont put a whole lotta thinking into what i wear really, I think characters and posture conveys probably just as much or even more. Iam not a person for accessories and crap, when it gets that far it is becoming to feminine. I dont even wear jewelry other than a watch.
Braham thoose shirts are awesome though, I'd probably wear the T5 one for sure the others i like as well and would prolly wear with jeans no jacket or w/e and probably sneakers. Do you design um yourself? you ever try desiging one with a Crucifix, Cross, or some kinda Christian resemblence.
Thanks bro... Yeah ive designed them myself and am having the shirts manufactured from scratch to ensure a perfect fitted and vintage fit... I have about 35 designs so far, nothing with a Christian referrence, but a few with emblems and such...