"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to to say when..

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Your talking to some chick and or she passes by and says "Your really cute/fine"

I dunno what to say to this and I get it all the time.. I'm totally lost as in what to say. I usaully just blush a bit and yeah... thats about it. So anyways what are your replies?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Capt.Jack Sparrow
Your talking to some chick and or she passes by and says "Your really cute/fine"

I dunno what to say to this and I get it all the time.. I'm totally lost as in what to say. I usaully just blush a bit and yeah... thats about it. So anyways what are your replies?
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Heh, my snap reaction would be, "I know." But that might be too ****y. Try, "Dang, you're like the fourth girl to say that today! What is it, the khakis?" or something.
 
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"awww..thanks... you're not too bad yourself :)"
[C+F tone]
 
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High School age, High School forum.

Moved to the High School Forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yea i had this happen yesterday 2 chicks walk by one says hes cute the other says yeah he is cute really cute.

So i just smile didnt know what else to do then im walkin around in the club, and 1 of those chicks gets infront of me and starts grindin on me im like whoa lol so i go along with it and dance with her for awhile she wasnt that attractive though.
 
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