What To Think Now?

[amnbyrd]

I made a post a few days back about this girl Ive been seeing and how she ruined things Sunday by inviting a friend to go to the movies with us. I had already deleted her number and decided she had to be Nexted. But out of nowhere today she texted me " Can I ask you two ?'s"
The 2 ?'s were kinda deep-1st was "What was your impression after reading my book?" (it was a book of poems she wrote and I was the 2nd person whos read it) and 2nd ? was "What do you do when the only person whos arms felt like home is gone?"
(quick recap is she dated some guy for 4 years and they broke up-now this was over 2 years ago but shes been hung over him ever since)
Anyways I told her what I honestly thought and her conclusion was that she should get over things and move on.
Now Im left wondering as to why she asked me them questions and how I should take things from here? I also have noted in my mind the things I dont like about her and how she def owes me an apology for how she acted before.
What should I do to handle this?

 

[loving]

she shared her deep self with you and you could not even make it through one time with her because of someone else there who you put responsibility on and thus "ruined" your time. or whatever, i didnt read your post and not giving us a link isnt going to make anyone go and search for your other post.

she, despite this, still had a thing for you and tried to help you by giving you an off point to transition from. she was telling you what she wanted you to do, not just talking to you about her bf, she was giving you strong feelings and you clearly could not make them about you.

I suggest going and asking her a deep question that shows intent or just doing what you shouldve done and answer her 2nd question with an answer that shows intent and purpose.

 

[slcKing]

I would still Next her if I were you she texted you about another guy that ended 2 years ago (Red Flag) and she didn't even apologize for the movie incident. Yea I would next her cause you don't want to be her emotional doormat.

 

[amnbyrd]

I did answer both questions seriously with intent and purpose. Im still tryin to decide if shes worth it though.

 

[Igetit!]

I hope you're not still interested in dating this girl,because it looks to me like you're in or on a one-way trip to the friendzone. These questions she asked you seem like questions girls would ask their girlfriends.

 

[cky]

Seems like LJBF is the magic term here, bro. You're giving her advice on getting over his ex and she's actually talking about how she felt about HIM, not YOU.

Just next her or keep her as a friend.

 

[Trajhenkhet01]

How I would answer the 2 questions -

1) Its hard to express it in a text message maybe we should meet up and talk about it

2) Move on and find a new home