"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to tell her parents?

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LuvLadies

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Trying to get this girl to stay over a few nights with me. What can she tell her parents to get out of the house.

First idea is telling them shes staying at a friends place but I'm sure her parents would want to check with the friends parents, etc.

Do you guys have any ideas? (beside STFU or This is why this board sucks and the like) :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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from personally experience: the more the parents dislike you and think of you as a "bad seed" the more the girl will like and want you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You posted in the wrong section, should have been in the High school section.

YOu could try to tell the parents she is at a friend's house, but if they catch you lieing, your a goner.
 
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Who cares if they catch you lying. What're they going to do, spank you? If your parents are ok with it, then go for it. Tell the girl to tell her parents she's staying with a friend (get her friend to say it too)
 
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They probably wont punish you, but they could punish the girl.

But then you could argue, why not threaten to move out, but if she moves in with the guy, and things go south, she is homeless, and if she moves in with a friend and has no money, she is in troubles.
 
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you and she are grown... if she can't "get out of the house" and she is grown, in HS or not, forget it.
 
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:( Really want here to stay over. I guess I will just have to forget it for now. Thanks for the replies, though.

Would it be frowned upon if I went in to the HS forum and and posted this same topic or a link to it?

A lot of you guys know a lot, so I thought I'd get some brilliant, genious idea, but I guess theres not much to do. But i hope thats not the case.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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