"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to tell her parents?

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LuvLadies

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Trying to get this girl to stay over a few nights with me. What can she tell her parents to get out of the house.

First idea is telling them shes staying at a friends place but I'm sure her parents would want to check with the friends parents, etc.

Do you guys have any ideas? (beside STFU or This is why this board sucks and the like) :confused:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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from personally experience: the more the parents dislike you and think of you as a "bad seed" the more the girl will like and want you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You posted in the wrong section, should have been in the High school section.

YOu could try to tell the parents she is at a friend's house, but if they catch you lieing, your a goner.
 
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Who cares if they catch you lying. What're they going to do, spank you? If your parents are ok with it, then go for it. Tell the girl to tell her parents she's staying with a friend (get her friend to say it too)
 
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They probably wont punish you, but they could punish the girl.

But then you could argue, why not threaten to move out, but if she moves in with the guy, and things go south, she is homeless, and if she moves in with a friend and has no money, she is in troubles.
 
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you and she are grown... if she can't "get out of the house" and she is grown, in HS or not, forget it.
 
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:( Really want here to stay over. I guess I will just have to forget it for now. Thanks for the replies, though.

Would it be frowned upon if I went in to the HS forum and and posted this same topic or a link to it?

A lot of you guys know a lot, so I thought I'd get some brilliant, genious idea, but I guess theres not much to do. But i hope thats not the case.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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