"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to tell a friend?

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Hi all,
Recently, I had a friend ask me and I didn't quite know how to answer him this.
He told me he's been seeing a girl for a while, and on their 5th night out she brought him back home and all was going good. Obviously, it's a good sign how she's opening up to him n stuff but what then happened, was then he wasn't actually "aroused" by her, and ended up going home without having done anything at all.
He wanted to know why that was the case, I said that she just wasn't attractive, or maybe he was just tired you kno stuff to make him feel better but come to think about it, are those reasons alone enough for him not to get aroused?
Would like to hear from ya'll out there much appreciated!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Because hes scared. You DONT go out with a girl 5 times if youre not attracted to her.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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For Faksakes!! What brilliant type of question will you and your friend come up with for post #2?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell him the tongue is mightier than the sword. You eat a woman right even if you can't get it up because of nervousness she'll give you another chance.

If he fails a second time...I got nothing.
 
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