"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what to tell a friend?

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Greydawg

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Hi all,
Recently, I had a friend ask me and I didn't quite know how to answer him this.
He told me he's been seeing a girl for a while, and on their 5th night out she brought him back home and all was going good. Obviously, it's a good sign how she's opening up to him n stuff but what then happened, was then he wasn't actually "aroused" by her, and ended up going home without having done anything at all.
He wanted to know why that was the case, I said that she just wasn't attractive, or maybe he was just tired you kno stuff to make him feel better but come to think about it, are those reasons alone enough for him not to get aroused?
Would like to hear from ya'll out there much appreciated!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Because hes scared. You DONT go out with a girl 5 times if youre not attracted to her.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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For Faksakes!! What brilliant type of question will you and your friend come up with for post #2?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell him the tongue is mightier than the sword. You eat a woman right even if you can't get it up because of nervousness she'll give you another chance.

If he fails a second time...I got nothing.
 
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