"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to tell a friend?

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Greydawg

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Hi all,
Recently, I had a friend ask me and I didn't quite know how to answer him this.
He told me he's been seeing a girl for a while, and on their 5th night out she brought him back home and all was going good. Obviously, it's a good sign how she's opening up to him n stuff but what then happened, was then he wasn't actually "aroused" by her, and ended up going home without having done anything at all.
He wanted to know why that was the case, I said that she just wasn't attractive, or maybe he was just tired you kno stuff to make him feel better but come to think about it, are those reasons alone enough for him not to get aroused?
Would like to hear from ya'll out there much appreciated!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Because hes scared. You DONT go out with a girl 5 times if youre not attracted to her.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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For Faksakes!! What brilliant type of question will you and your friend come up with for post #2?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell him the tongue is mightier than the sword. You eat a woman right even if you can't get it up because of nervousness she'll give you another chance.

If he fails a second time...I got nothing.
 
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