"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to talk bout if u already know her?

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Ok so there this girl i like but ive pretty much given up on, but just out of curiousity what would u talk about with a girl if you already know her well. Like most people well tell you to get to know her but what if you already know most of that stuff?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's alot easier then talking to a girl you DONT know much about. If you know her, talk about what she feels about emotionally, develop rapport with her, this requires you to truely know her. Not think you know her.

To start a conversation with someone there are plenty of things you can do, talk to her about what she did on the weekend, those kind of things. However, this is the easy step, what you DONT want is to get stuck in the 'interview' conversation where you just shoot back questions back and forth. You have to take it to the next level and look for any oppurtunity to put the conversation on an emotional level, humour is a good gateway to getting to this level. However, alot of guys rely to much on humour and never get serious with the girl, they don't touch the inner her ;)
 
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Originally posted by gRiM999
two words:

Abstract Thought.

Talk about whatever comes to mind; just make sure you're USING your mind (imagination!).

Just don't be a friggin weirdo.
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Preach it , brother, preach it.:cheer:
 
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