"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what to talk bout if u already know her?

trippychip

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Ok so there this girl i like but ive pretty much given up on, but just out of curiousity what would u talk about with a girl if you already know her well. Like most people well tell you to get to know her but what if you already know most of that stuff?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sammo

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That's alot easier then talking to a girl you DONT know much about. If you know her, talk about what she feels about emotionally, develop rapport with her, this requires you to truely know her. Not think you know her.

To start a conversation with someone there are plenty of things you can do, talk to her about what she did on the weekend, those kind of things. However, this is the easy step, what you DONT want is to get stuck in the 'interview' conversation where you just shoot back questions back and forth. You have to take it to the next level and look for any oppurtunity to put the conversation on an emotional level, humour is a good gateway to getting to this level. However, alot of guys rely to much on humour and never get serious with the girl, they don't touch the inner her ;)
 

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Originally posted by gRiM999
two words:

Abstract Thought.

Talk about whatever comes to mind; just make sure you're USING your mind (imagination!).

Just don't be a friggin weirdo.
Preach it , brother, preach it.:cheer:
 
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