ok, so , lets say im with my girlfriend and she'll comment on how hot another guy is. Like, her friend will talk about somone and then smy gf will go "oooo, hes hot" Now, this doesnt really make me mad or anything, but I just want somethin good to say to her when she says it. have any suggestions? possibly a neg hit even?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what to say?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Return fire. Comment on a nearby chick.
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On second thought, that may not be an overly smart idea. Use humor? Be like "Oh, so you don't like me anymore? I see how it is!" with a half-shocked half-im-just-fvcking-kidding look on ur face
ya,i usually say somethin like "oh, well u can just have (guys name) if u really think hes hot." and then i walk off and shell go "imsooooorrryyyy" and come kiss me or somethin, but i just want somethin to say that can put her down while usin humor.
SomethingCreative
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"ur not good enough for him" 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
^^haha.
Or you could imitate a gay and be like "Ohhhh yeaaa he isth sthooo hottt!"
Rememeber never let this behavior faze you, girls do it to make you jealous and see your reaction. just take it as a joke.
Or like others have said, return fire.
Or you could imitate a gay and be like "Ohhhh yeaaa he isth sthooo hottt!"
Rememeber never let this behavior faze you, girls do it to make you jealous and see your reaction. just take it as a joke.
Or like others have said, return fire.
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haha my ex did that to me once and I said "ooo yeah my ex gf think______ is hot too!" and she got mad.....for some odd reason???? oh well that relationship never worked out anyway
misunderstood??
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I really like this one!Originally posted by SomethingCreative
"ur not good enough for him"