"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what to say??

falconslax89

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ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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falconslax89 said:
ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
 

falconslax89

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WC2 said:
"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
i know she does want me...i just dont know if i should say "yeah, i do think that" or what ya know...

and shes in california visiting a friend or id probably be at her crib right now
 

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Speak with certainty... not "think" nor "should"...

Like WC2 said "I KNOW you want that".
 
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