"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what to say??

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ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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falconslax89 said:
ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
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"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
 
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WC2 said:
"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
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i know she does want me...i just dont know if i should say "yeah, i do think that" or what ya know...

and shes in california visiting a friend or id probably be at her crib right now
 
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Speak with certainty... not "think" nor "should"...

Like WC2 said "I KNOW you want that".
 
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