"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what to say??

falconslax89

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ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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falconslax89 said:
ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks. weve only hung out like 3 times and have only kissed. ive been going hard with ****y/funny, playing hard to get and all that and its working well.

anyway we always 'poke' each other on facebook. she sent me a text randomly saying 'your a poke a holic.' i replied 'ill poke you all day.'
her:'mhm, i like the sound of that ;) im just messin.' me:'no your not'
her:'you sound pretty sure of yourself.' me: 'duh.'
her: 'you think i want you?'

i dont know what to say to that, although im very sure she does want me based on everything else.

what do i say??
"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
 

falconslax89

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WC2 said:
"Think? I know you want me."

Meet up with her already.
i know she does want me...i just dont know if i should say "yeah, i do think that" or what ya know...

and shes in california visiting a friend or id probably be at her crib right now
 

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Speak with certainty... not "think" nor "should"...

Like WC2 said "I KNOW you want that".
 
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