"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rhino22

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OK, so there is this really cute girl that I have seen working at quiktrip atleast twice. She only waited on me once and I just said, "Hello" but she gave me those "I want you and think you're hot" look with her eyes. I could be deulsional I suppose..haha.

Anyway, I have no idea how to approach this girl since it's at freakin quik trip and there are always tons of people and the cashiers move super fast. She doesn't even know my name...I don't know hers.

What if the next time I go in and she rings me up after she say's, "Is that all?" I say, "I don't know...you wanna hang out?" Then where to go from there?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vitor

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Ask her for her number, or give her your business card and tell her to call you. The business card idea is because she is at work and things are moving fast there. Even your name and email address.. I doubt at the check out line you have 5 mins to run game..
 

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I don't have a business card. SHould I just write it down on paper? Should I say something to her while I give it to her or jsut give it to her after she gives me my change, smile, and say goodbye?

Yeah, it's very hard to run game in this kind of situation. I think.
 

Rhino22

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Or if I were to ask her for her number...just randomly say that without her even knowing my name?

Her: "Anything else?"

Me: "Your number"

Her: Who knows...
 

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Just give her your number on a piece of paper. Tell her it's the most important number she'll ever lose. She will get a quick laugh out of it and who knows, she may even call
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rhino22

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Haha so that sounds good. So just hand her that...don't introduce myself or anything? I guess in this type of situation handing a piece of paper is an ok thing to do.
 
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