"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OK, so there is this really cute girl that I have seen working at quiktrip atleast twice. She only waited on me once and I just said, "Hello" but she gave me those "I want you and think you're hot" look with her eyes. I could be deulsional I suppose..haha.

Anyway, I have no idea how to approach this girl since it's at freakin quik trip and there are always tons of people and the cashiers move super fast. She doesn't even know my name...I don't know hers.

What if the next time I go in and she rings me up after she say's, "Is that all?" I say, "I don't know...you wanna hang out?" Then where to go from there?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ask her for her number, or give her your business card and tell her to call you. The business card idea is because she is at work and things are moving fast there. Even your name and email address.. I doubt at the check out line you have 5 mins to run game..
 
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I don't have a business card. SHould I just write it down on paper? Should I say something to her while I give it to her or jsut give it to her after she gives me my change, smile, and say goodbye?

Yeah, it's very hard to run game in this kind of situation. I think.
 
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Or if I were to ask her for her number...just randomly say that without her even knowing my name?

Her: "Anything else?"

Me: "Your number"

Her: Who knows...
 
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Just give her your number on a piece of paper. Tell her it's the most important number she'll ever lose. She will get a quick laugh out of it and who knows, she may even call
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haha so that sounds good. So just hand her that...don't introduce myself or anything? I guess in this type of situation handing a piece of paper is an ok thing to do.
 
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