"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to say?

reachinside

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I'm gonna do it tomorrow.. I'm gonna do my first approach. But I'm nervous as **** still about 1 thing that was my main fear.

What kinds of things do I say? I mean, jokes, whatever comes to mind, etc. What do I say after hi?

I don't want routines, please, I really don't like the concept of that. Just a theme, please. What has worked best for you?

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CarbonFX

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"Hi, what's up" or "Hey, how's it going" they work wonders. Don't talk to a girl for the sake of talking find something to talk about otherwise you get those silent awkward pauses, if anything when you get those eject and find something else to do. Nothing to be nervous about unless you have oneitis that will trigger nervousness. Ask yourself "whats the worst that can happen" and be realistic, no you won't get a gang of boys chasing you so just chill.
 

reachinside

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Well yeah I assume saying hi will be the least of my problems though

What am I supposed to do after
 

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I used to have this problem. What I do is comment on things that are going on around me. Like the weather, or maybe something you noticed she was wearing that you found unique. Don't try to think of something random because everything you need to talk about is staring you in the face.
 
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