"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm gonna do it tomorrow.. I'm gonna do my first approach. But I'm nervous as **** still about 1 thing that was my main fear.

What kinds of things do I say? I mean, jokes, whatever comes to mind, etc. What do I say after hi?

I don't want routines, please, I really don't like the concept of that. Just a theme, please. What has worked best for you?

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hi, what's up" or "Hey, how's it going" they work wonders. Don't talk to a girl for the sake of talking find something to talk about otherwise you get those silent awkward pauses, if anything when you get those eject and find something else to do. Nothing to be nervous about unless you have oneitis that will trigger nervousness. Ask yourself "whats the worst that can happen" and be realistic, no you won't get a gang of boys chasing you so just chill.
 
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Well yeah I assume saying hi will be the least of my problems though

What am I supposed to do after
 
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I used to have this problem. What I do is comment on things that are going on around me. Like the weather, or maybe something you noticed she was wearing that you found unique. Don't try to think of something random because everything you need to talk about is staring you in the face.
 
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