"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to say?

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I'm gonna do it tomorrow.. I'm gonna do my first approach. But I'm nervous as **** still about 1 thing that was my main fear.

What kinds of things do I say? I mean, jokes, whatever comes to mind, etc. What do I say after hi?

I don't want routines, please, I really don't like the concept of that. Just a theme, please. What has worked best for you?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Hi, what's up" or "Hey, how's it going" they work wonders. Don't talk to a girl for the sake of talking find something to talk about otherwise you get those silent awkward pauses, if anything when you get those eject and find something else to do. Nothing to be nervous about unless you have oneitis that will trigger nervousness. Ask yourself "whats the worst that can happen" and be realistic, no you won't get a gang of boys chasing you so just chill.
 
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Well yeah I assume saying hi will be the least of my problems though

What am I supposed to do after
 
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I used to have this problem. What I do is comment on things that are going on around me. Like the weather, or maybe something you noticed she was wearing that you found unique. Don't try to think of something random because everything you need to talk about is staring you in the face.
 
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