"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what to say

afc no more

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what do i say when she texts me out of no where saying she's bored? and also, what should i do when she's complaining about her day at work? i don't really want to talk to a person when they're on a pms rampage.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Recluce

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her: im bored
you: lets go grab a coffee and f\/ck
her: no way!
you: what? you dont like coffee?


dont really say that, but you should get the drift. her telling you she is bored is her way of saying,"im bored, be a man and come rescue me from my boredom"

if she complains about work, just tell her that you dont play that role for her. thats what her female friends are for.
 

AznPlaya

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U think 2 much................... use ur common sense
All i can say is materials aint gonna help u, only inner game iz gonna!
And plz know that is the 100 percent truth
 

whyme2008

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i dont get it.you only giving a "line" to use in response to another "one line" question such as what to say if she complains about work.

but you could never tell him what to say when he gets the response from that "line".

you guys arent there to see what happens next.and that is where my problem is.

email me [email protected]
 

whyme2008

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using a line here and a line there dont help me. i need an outline for a whole conversation
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheNastyAfrican

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wow, if you don't want to talk to someone then don't! you're not obligated to talk to anybody. When she says she's bored you can invite her to do something.

I don't know what else to tell you, it's apparent you have a lot to learn.
 

War Against Betaism

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Her: "I'm bored"
You: "Sounds like fun"

I dunno lol.
 
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