"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what do i say when she texts me out of no where saying she's bored? and also, what should i do when she's complaining about her day at work? i don't really want to talk to a person when they're on a pms rampage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Recluce

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her: im bored
you: lets go grab a coffee and f\/ck
her: no way!
you: what? you dont like coffee?


dont really say that, but you should get the drift. her telling you she is bored is her way of saying,"im bored, be a man and come rescue me from my boredom"

if she complains about work, just tell her that you dont play that role for her. thats what her female friends are for.
 

AznPlaya

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U think 2 much................... use ur common sense
All i can say is materials aint gonna help u, only inner game iz gonna!
And plz know that is the 100 percent truth
 

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i dont get it.you only giving a "line" to use in response to another "one line" question such as what to say if she complains about work.

but you could never tell him what to say when he gets the response from that "line".

you guys arent there to see what happens next.and that is where my problem is.

email me [email protected]
 

whyme2008

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using a line here and a line there dont help me. i need an outline for a whole conversation
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNastyAfrican

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wow, if you don't want to talk to someone then don't! you're not obligated to talk to anybody. When she says she's bored you can invite her to do something.

I don't know what else to tell you, it's apparent you have a lot to learn.
 

War Against Betaism

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Her: "I'm bored"
You: "Sounds like fun"

I dunno lol.
 
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