"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what to say when u kno shes into u and convo dies

dj ben2

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now ive only used this once before so im not sure how well it works but i know this chick was REALLY into me at the time now we were talking for a good 15 mins before hand when the convo started to die there was about a 2 second awkward pause so i was scuring my mind withg things i should say or do and this is waht i did.
you have to say it with enthusiasm and a girn on ur face when u ask but this is how it went

"hey (....insert name.....) im gonna ask u a question that i want u to answer (then pause
her: ok
me:a re you ready for it
her: yea
me: are you u suuuuure
her:yea
me ok.... do u like me?, cos i like you
her yeah (smile)
me oh yeah prove it
her how?
me: sit on my lap

and from then on i said i said see u do like me and then i started using david d's technique of sniffing her hair and neck which is in the bible somewhere if ur interestdd in it, i also got the prove it thing form somehwere here i cant remember where but it works wondrers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dj ben2

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MagnuM said:
so what happened?
we hooked up .... there was people around so we couldnt do anything further. she also had a b/f and her m8s new and they kept ****blocking me stopping her form drinking and leaving early =(
 

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maybe this could theoretically work, but it sounds really lame to me. I don't think I could ever respect myself again if I said this.
 

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Youngblood,

I'm going to be as forthright as possible because you need it, desperately.

Helen Keller could see that this girl thinks you're an idiot. I'm not saying this to hurt you but to splash some fvcking water on your personality.

Grow the fvck up. What you said to her wouldn't work on any chick regardless of her age or mental acumen. READ, READ, READ. Then put what you read into practice. This will become experience will which then dump loads of confidence into your soul.
 

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If you're gonna tell her to sit in your lap...just go ahead and do it. If she asks why, tell her, "Cause then you're vagina will be against my penis." F.uck her if she cant take a joke.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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