"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to say when she says "i miss you"?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rtrev64

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Really, if you and her are not exclusive, it dont mean anything, it could be a good thing for a bit, yall see each other and show physically with each other how much you two miss each other but that will wear off and all the I miss you text really dont mean anything if you are dating another girl because well the one who said she misses you is prolly saying that to the new BF or guy friend..

Ill just say, me too..
 

azanon

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Stéphane said:
You guys are over thinking this. Just say I miss you too like a normal person.
This is the right one. Remember, you didn't start it, so it's no big deal to reciprocate. Where you need to worry is if YOU are the one saying I miss you, first.

There's ****y and funny, and there's just being a punk-ass dips***. At least half of the responses so far fall into the latter category.
 

bitteorca

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azanon said:
This is the right one. Remember, you didn't start it, so it's no big deal to reciprocate. Where you need to worry is if YOU are the one saying I miss you, first.

There's ****y and funny, and there's just being a punk-ass dips***. At least half of the responses so far fall into the latter category.
I think I agree with you.

In my particular case, I have never initiated it, I just reciprocate it. I would never initiate it either so early on.

I also think that some of the responses here are a bit TOO A-holeish. They're also a bit see through IMO. Girls can sniff this alpha cologne that AFCs put on to disguise their true smells.

IMO, you should reciprocate, if you want to/if you do miss her. If that means she goes off you, or she was just playing games, the girl's not worth it anyway!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuan11

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horaholic said:
But, throwing your phone across the room over that was a pretty chump move. You cant let women get to you like that, and if you ever SHOW them they get to you, you're DONE.

Women need us to be an emotional ROCK, which is a catch 22, cuz they complain about guys being insensitive, yet if we show any emotional weakness, her respect for us dies.

I cannot stress this enough. NEVER "REACT" to a woman. Take your own action, but dont let anything a woman does influence our behaviour, positively OR negatively, but especially negatively. At least hide it from her with your life. That is the most important DJ concept there is.
EXACTLY. She could say she is dying to have sex with you when she's 3000 miles away. She could say she wants to marry you at the same time she is sleeping with another guy. She could say she loves you while she is waiting for prince charming.

Words don't mean anything, it only counts when she puts the pedal to the metal.
 
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