"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what to say when she asks if you have a girlfriend?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"The word 'girlfriend' is so cliche...I prefer the term female companions with varying levels of significance and understanding."
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ive been asked this question many times. My answer would normally be like this:ConantheLibertarian said:'I keep a harem on call to cater to my every whim. I have a spot open...' Usually just answer honestly. It's how you answer that tells your tale. But being funny every once in awhile in response isn't bad, either.
I would look up then "sometimes" then look at her eyes followed by a smirk. Say it like how james bond would say it though
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one of my favorites:
Her: do you have a girlfriend?
Me: girlfriend as in one? No. I have girlfriends though
David Deangelo school of thought. Read his articles.