"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to say when she asks if you have a girlfriend?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRMoon

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wasn't this question posted like two weeks ago?

"The word 'girlfriend' is so cliche...I prefer the term female companions with varying levels of significance and understanding."
 

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*nods* Yeah, whatever the situation, be up-front and honest about it. No matter what your relationship status is, it should never be that big of a deal.
 

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'I keep a harem on call to cater to my every whim. I have a spot open...' Usually just answer honestly. It's how you answer that tells your tale. But being funny every once in awhile in response isn't bad, either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ConantheLibertarian said:
'I keep a harem on call to cater to my every whim. I have a spot open...' Usually just answer honestly. It's how you answer that tells your tale. But being funny every once in awhile in response isn't bad, either.
ive been asked this question many times. My answer would normally be like this:

I would look up then "sometimes" then look at her eyes followed by a smirk. Say it like how james bond would say it though
 

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****y funny response, always:

one of my favorites:
Her: do you have a girlfriend?
Me: girlfriend as in one? No. I have girlfriends though

David Deangelo school of thought. Read his articles.
 
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