"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what to say when a girl talk about her bf or a guy she "is seeing"

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jason86

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fuks sake! just say something like 'ah cool'. u dont have to say something special and groundbreaking every fukin minute. it aint going to make a difference what u say to that. fuk that stupid line the dude above said and fuk u too for making this thread.

man this site gets to me sometimes
 

Glycerine2

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agreed jason. sometimes people on this site put way too much emphasis on good lines and answers.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Hey man no need to get your panties up in a bunch....he wanted a line so i told him a line. Simple as that. I never said u needed a line for that he just wanted one. So instead of flaming him i told him one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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doctoroxygen

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Ignore it. When the boyfriend line comes up, you've come on too strong and screwed things up already. If you play the game right, the only reason it will come up is if the girl worries you're not going to be discrete.
 
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