"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what to say when a girl talk about her bf or a guy she "is seeing"

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jason86

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fuks sake! just say something like 'ah cool'. u dont have to say something special and groundbreaking every fukin minute. it aint going to make a difference what u say to that. fuk that stupid line the dude above said and fuk u too for making this thread.

man this site gets to me sometimes
 

Glycerine2

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agreed jason. sometimes people on this site put way too much emphasis on good lines and answers.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Hey man no need to get your panties up in a bunch....he wanted a line so i told him a line. Simple as that. I never said u needed a line for that he just wanted one. So instead of flaming him i told him one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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doctoroxygen

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Ignore it. When the boyfriend line comes up, you've come on too strong and screwed things up already. If you play the game right, the only reason it will come up is if the girl worries you're not going to be discrete.
 
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