"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to say when a girl do not qualify intentionally to your qualifiers?

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For example when you ask, Are you adventure? And she says I am not

Or you say, are you ambitious? And she says I am not

Or even worse, Are you a fun girl? And she says I am not

Specially when she says it intentionally as a challenge but obviously she is a fun girl

My usual respond is:
Do you know that adventures girls are very attractive for men? (Implying therefore she is not attractive but playfully obviously).

Do you guys have any other respond for those situation. Please don't tell me to next those girls because they are obviously playing hard to get, they have those qualities they are just playing hard
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sound like low interest. Why spend time on her?
Because I don't like to eject from sets, even less if a girl does not qualify and I don't say anything. I always approach from the Frame 'I am the prize'. I like to let her know that before leave and leaving after getting non compliance from a girl (no qualifying) and not reframing the no compliance of her feels like she was the prize and you were chasing. That is why I like to say something like "Ok, well, do you know that x trait (the trait she didn't comply) is very attractive for most men??
 
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would you like to get to know me; I would not.
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your hair is on fire.
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it is either low interest because she already decided or... she did not yet decide and is giving you auto-reply. you're asking how to get past the autoreply and get her to consider you. if she is already decided then it is bad for you to continue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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