What to say to girls who are subconcious about their looks

[jc7875]

I tried i love your eyes.. but she doesnt believe me, she thinks she is ugly .. what can i say to cheer her up guys ?

 

[Hellshock]

Attention *****. She's fishing for compliments, and wants you to shower her with them. Be sparse with the compliments, and when you do give her one, make sure it's about something other than her looks. Jewellery, a new outfit, hairstyle, could be anything. Using compliments rarely will increase the effectiveness of them tenfold, and as long as you keep them off her looks, she should have no reason to go on about being ugly.

And in the instance she does, agree with her, flash a smile and make sure she knows your being sarcastic.

 

[USSOCOM]

Hellshock was on the right track, dont forget that women aren't just objects they have a personality too (although sometimes not much of one). Be sure to compliment her mind too, such as humor, smarts etc.

 

[Gaming111]

Yeah, give a compliment on something she can control, instead of just her body. Once I noticed that a girl had perfectly matched the color of her shoes and shirt, and I commented on it. It totally made her day. Little things like this make you look really good, as long as they're used sparingly. Once she's gotten complimented enough, it stops seeming special. You don't want that.

 

[jmm854]

she thinks she is ugly

There's some truth to everything. And yes, she's fishing for compliments. I take it she's not your girlfriend, I wouldn't waste my time.