"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to say in this situation when I didn't get the # myself?

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Was at the laundry mat with my roomate and we both seen this girl washing her clothes. Well I noticed her first, we were there for about 5 minutes before I noticed her, she was sleeping at a desk in the back.

Both me and my roomate wanted to talk to her, but he really wanted to talk to her and get some practice talking to woman. So he did just that, he told me she really didn't seem to interested in him, but he was still able to get her number, he told me she kind of hesitated to give it to him , but she still did.

Now I did say a few words to her, becuase I was the one that woke her up when I went to the back to put in a load. I forgot exactly what I said to her, but it was something along the lines of asking her if I had wokin her up and didn't meen to do it and that was it. She knew me and my roomate were there together (it was pretty obvious that we were friends).

Well my roomate did something I thinking he should have not done, and I told him not to do, but he still did it. After he got the number and she left about 10 minutes later he end up texting her telling her who it is and she noe has his number also. This was about 3 days ago and she never texted him back, from the initial convo he had with her and her not texting him back he's pretty much convinced that she was not interested in him.

He's now given me her number to try and give it a shot. I got a number so I'm guessing it's worth a shot, I just have no idea what to say if I call her. Should I just be honest with her and tell her that my friend didn't think you were feeling him, but gve me your number and I'm just giving you a call to say hi, and basically tell her who I am and where she seen me, etc... Would something like this work? What would give me the best possible chance in this particular situation for success? I'm also ready to get completey blow off by her, but I got her number, worth a shot, right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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most girls would find this creepy...some random guy they never gave their number to calling them up
 

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kingsam said:
most girls would find this creepy...some random guy they never gave their number to calling them up
Exactly.... Your best bet is to just chill, I imagine you'll see her again at the same laundry mat some time soon. Sounds like she had a long day if she was sleeping in the damn place ahaha. I wouldn't want to be bothered much at that time either.
 

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Here's what you do. Next time you go to the laundry mat. Have her number written down on a piece of paper. Hand it to her and tell her "Here's your number back". Tell her your friend isn't the brightest person to erase it from his phone so he wrote it down and you're "giving it back" to her.

She'll either think you're funny and laugh, tell YOU to keep it (and you can go from there), or think your an ass. Then again. Who cares what she thinks.

But don't text her or use it otherwise. That's friggin weird.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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