"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to say in this situation when I didn't get the # myself?

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Was at the laundry mat with my roomate and we both seen this girl washing her clothes. Well I noticed her first, we were there for about 5 minutes before I noticed her, she was sleeping at a desk in the back.

Both me and my roomate wanted to talk to her, but he really wanted to talk to her and get some practice talking to woman. So he did just that, he told me she really didn't seem to interested in him, but he was still able to get her number, he told me she kind of hesitated to give it to him , but she still did.

Now I did say a few words to her, becuase I was the one that woke her up when I went to the back to put in a load. I forgot exactly what I said to her, but it was something along the lines of asking her if I had wokin her up and didn't meen to do it and that was it. She knew me and my roomate were there together (it was pretty obvious that we were friends).

Well my roomate did something I thinking he should have not done, and I told him not to do, but he still did it. After he got the number and she left about 10 minutes later he end up texting her telling her who it is and she noe has his number also. This was about 3 days ago and she never texted him back, from the initial convo he had with her and her not texting him back he's pretty much convinced that she was not interested in him.

He's now given me her number to try and give it a shot. I got a number so I'm guessing it's worth a shot, I just have no idea what to say if I call her. Should I just be honest with her and tell her that my friend didn't think you were feeling him, but gve me your number and I'm just giving you a call to say hi, and basically tell her who I am and where she seen me, etc... Would something like this work? What would give me the best possible chance in this particular situation for success? I'm also ready to get completey blow off by her, but I got her number, worth a shot, right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kingsam

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most girls would find this creepy...some random guy they never gave their number to calling them up
 

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kingsam said:
most girls would find this creepy...some random guy they never gave their number to calling them up
Exactly.... Your best bet is to just chill, I imagine you'll see her again at the same laundry mat some time soon. Sounds like she had a long day if she was sleeping in the damn place ahaha. I wouldn't want to be bothered much at that time either.
 

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Here's what you do. Next time you go to the laundry mat. Have her number written down on a piece of paper. Hand it to her and tell her "Here's your number back". Tell her your friend isn't the brightest person to erase it from his phone so he wrote it down and you're "giving it back" to her.

She'll either think you're funny and laugh, tell YOU to keep it (and you can go from there), or think your an ass. Then again. Who cares what she thinks.

But don't text her or use it otherwise. That's friggin weird.
 

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